She Uninvited Me From Her Baby Shower—But Still Asked Me To Cook For 50 People

Despite this clear advice, the author felt a confusing mix of habit and guilt. She had already cooked half the food, and so, she kept going. The next day, she loaded the massive trays into her car and drove to the house.

Reva didn’t even greet her at the car. She sent her cousin out to the curb instead. The cousin simply said, “Reva says thank you! This all smells amazing!” and didn’t even offer to help carry the heavy trays. The author drove away feeling like a fool and realized she was upset not just about the party, but because she felt used.

Discovering the Truth

A day later, the author shared a small, quiet post on her private social media: “Made food for 50. Got uninvited. Still dropped it off. Never again.” She didn’t name names, but an old friend, Ashir, messaged her immediately: “Wait. Are you talking about Reva’s shower??”

He then shared a shocking detail: “You’re not the only one. She did the same to Mel. Asked her to make cookies, then uninvited her too.”

The author reached out to Mel, who confirmed the story. Mel had seen pictures of the party later. She revealed, “She said the venue was ‘too small’ and they had to cut people. But then I saw pics on Facebook. There were at least 60 people there. And three cookie tables.”

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