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We took her to a psychiatrist in Cambridge a few days later. Margaret sat stiffly, hands folded, eyes downcast.
The doctor asked gently, “Margaret, what do you believe is happening at night?”
Her voice quivered.
“I have to keep him safe,” she whispered. “He’ll come back. I can’t lose my son again.”
Later, the doctor told us the truth.
Thirty years ago, when Margaret lived in upstate New York with her husband, an intruder broke into their home. Her husband tried to confront him — and didn’t survive.
Ever since, she had lived in terror that the same danger would return.
When I entered Liam’s life, her trauma confused me with that old threat.
She didn’t hate me — her mind simply misread me as another stranger who could “take her son away.”
I had seen her as frightening… but she was the one living in fear.
The doctor recommended therapy and mild medication, but said the most important things were patience and steady reassurance.
“Trauma doesn’t disappear,” he said. “But love can soften it.”
That night, Margaret approached me in tears.
“I never meant to scare you,” she whispered. “I only want to keep my son safe.”
For the first time, I reached for her hand.
“You don’t need to knock anymore,” I said softly. “No one is coming. We’re safe. All of us.”
The next weeks weren’t perfect. Some nights she still woke hearing footsteps. Some nights I lost patience. But Liam would remind me, “She’s not the enemy — she’s still recovering.”
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